How to Prepare for a Psychic Reading
1. Have a positive, happy, trusting outlook toward life and bring that attitude with you, especially when you have your reading-
don't just hope for a happy future, look forward to one. Like begets like. A happy future grows from a happy present. If you tend
to be worried and gloomy, change that!--read books that will help you see the possibilities in life, not the "impossibilities," learn some
affirmations and improve your "happiness quotient," then ask Spirit for suggestions and guidance to help you. Do whatever it takes.
Remember, it's your future and you have free will always. Much of what a medium reads for you depends not on some whimsical fate
that tosses your life about haplessly, but on the attitudes you have built into your mental atmosphere. Start changing
that and watch your readings become upbeat and your life will change!
2. Understand that mediumship should ideally be uplifting and hopeful of a happy outcome for your life. If the medium you
choose insults you, implies you have little to hope for, criticizes your attitude or puts you down in any way, realize that this medium
probably does not know his business and don't use him again. If he/she speaks of your imminent death or inevitably serious illness,
you may be sure he/she doesn't know his/her business and just know that you have Spirit's permission to leave the premises. Sensible
\people know that putting such fear into another can actually cause such terror on the part of the frightened person that the worry eventually
leads to illness--he/she just may actually have some sort of attack, and perhaps something serious like a heart attack or a stroke. You
might want to tell the medium that he/she needs to stop this kind of behavior because it's too hard on his/her clients. Point out that the
medium is planting thought seeds in people's minds and that those thoughts can become terrible bullies! Many times such people have simply
never had anyone explain the effect it has on their clients. Those on the spirit side of life say that they can seldom predict the time of someone's
death on earth. They only know the time is near when the angels actually gather at the person's bedside. After all, from death and dying studies,
we know that people often hang on a bit longer just for their loved ones, when they really want to pass over to the other side. The time of death
can depend on free will as much as anything else. I have always heard it said that we choose the time of our going, which, since our thought
builds our lives, would seem to be the truth. Hawaiian Hunas deliberately chose to die, and did so, at the time of their choosing.
3. Remember mediums are just people and have their bad days, too. Take any negative statement with a grain of salt. Sun spots, for example,
have been discovered through actual research to make a medium's accuracy drop, they interfere with the medium's connection to the
information from spirit side of life, just as we know that sun spots affect radio reception, too.
4. Use your common sense. If some statement doesn't seem to apply to you, think about it later, test it, then if it really doesn't make
sense, forget it. Always test the information, and adopt a wait and see approach. Sometimes we get confirmation through another medium.
5. Through meditation and prayer, by putting the white light of protection around you when you go for a reading, by asking spirit to advise
you about things you need to make decisions about and having a greater and greater closeness with spirit yourself, you can clear up any
confusion a reading may bring and even more importantly can live more and more a spirit-guided life which will make
visiting a medium less and less necessary to you because you will get your own answers.
6. During a reading, trust your first hunch, trust the first thought immediately after the medium tells you what he/she sees because your
intuitive reaction is almost always the true reaction. Spirit is influencing you, too, during the reading, so even if the medium is having a bad
day and interprets something another way, your interpretation is usually the right one. You know yourself much better than the medium ever
will and your instincts about yourself are generally to be trusted. By developing your own closeness with spirit through meditation you will give
yourself better answers than you can ever hope to get from a medium. Getting answers directly, of course, is always, in every
area of life, superior to getting answers through a go-between-like a medium.
7. Tell the medium if you are upset with his/her manner, because this is a joint venture on the part of the medium and
the client, in which we all try to bring progress to each other and ultimately, thereby, to our entire universe.
8. Consider the following, from a book called "Psychic Facts", by Peggy Barnes:
In the little Spiritualist pamphlet "Psychic Facts", Peggy Barnes, says, "Mediumship is a sacred gift and is deserving of every effort that
can be made. Through mediumship we derive evidence of the continuity of life, which removes all fear of death; we receive the comfort of
communication with our loved ones who have passed on into a higher expression of life; we receive a knowledge of the conditions in the
higher phase of life and an understanding of the natural laws governing the universe and all therein. Through our understanding
and application of God's law, we realize we are the masters of our own destinies and that we truly can be what we will to be..."
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